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Friday, May 14, 2010

My Love Letter (the past becomes the present)




I wrote this on Valentines day of this year. I can now actually say that it has come true. I have edited it and did so in bold face. What do you think about my ability to foretell the future?








This is Valentines Day and I have discussed love for the last few days so why stop now. I have a love of my life but it is my daughter and she will leave one day to go out on her own. This is a  letter that I am writing for my future Valentine, the one that I will find one day, or maybe she will find me.

Dear Valentine, (Judy)

I am thankful the most that I have found a women that desires to have a relationship with God. Not a women who knows the right words or praises God aloud and then is vile in private. All of the attributes that I have fallen in love with exist solely because of your desire to be a woman of faith.

Men go to war and kill and die for the image of a fantasy women while men who love a real women go to work everyday, comes home and works around the house, makes sure that the little things are said and done for a women that they love. You are not perfect in this world but you are the perfect woman for me. It seems that God created you just for me. Do I get irritated at things you do? Do I find every second of every action perfect? No, but I do realize that you are a gift and I should cherish you as the gift that God Almighty has given me.

When I look at you today I see the true beauty that you are. While you are physically beautiful today you will be even more so to me when you are 80 because I will see and understand even more of what makes you beautiful. I want to know that I can hold your hand when you are 80 and see the twinkle in your eye that for so many years has made me heart pump faster and my mind go delirious with the love I feel for you.

My goal in life is to make you happy, to bring joy that you would not have had if it had not been for me showing you the preciousness of the gift that God gave me with you. When all is said and done and we are sitting together in old age I want you to be able to look at me and still be able to be thankful that you said "I do" (has not said "I do" yet). We will have spats, disagreements even arguments but when we are nearing the final days of our lives I want you to know that it was worth it because you had found a true love.

Love, your Valentine
Michael.

There will be a day that I find my Valentine in the future I may or may not have already met her but I want to make sure that this letter or one like it can be given to her and she knows that it is true. (I have found her and she is perfect "for me")

Sorry for the sappiness but hey, it is my blog......:)

17 comments:

  1. lovely..just lovely...nikki

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  2. I am so happy for you. I hope I will find my true love next.

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  3. "From every human being there rises a light that reaches straight to heaven. And when two souls that are destined to be together find each other, their streams of light flow together, and a single brighter light goes forth from their united being." ~~~~~Unknown

    You are my "light" and everyday you show me a little bit of heaven. You are my best friend, my confidant, my soul mate, my happiness, my life.

    I love you Michael and I thank God every day for you.

    Judy

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  4. Judy, Michael is the perfect man in my eyes, he has been a dear friend for many years. I have told my girlfriends forever that he was the best catch around. I do want to warn you that there is another girl who let go of him but has not gotten over Michael yet. Please be careful because she has threatened violence because of her loss.

    ~tn

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  5. Thanks tn but I know all about "D" and what SHE did to end that relationship. Michael and I do not keep things from each other and I have heard the whole story. If she is not over him then she should not have been so "free" with herself and maybe they would still be together. Rest assured that she does not scare me and if she decides to start threatening me she will find that my wrath is worse than any other she has encountered in her pitiful existence. No one messes with a "Boston Girl" and her loved ones.

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  6. Does this mean I have lost my chance with you?

    Rebeka

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  7. Can someone please give Rebeka the name of a good therapist?? She is really pitiful.

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  8. Rebeka, how do I put this nicely. You have NEVER had a chance with me. I have never been to excited about a woman who offered herself to me in such a manner as you have. I have seen that before and understand that if you would do it for me you would also do it for other men as well.

    Your post and emails are about as strange as Jim's. It is obvious that you two are cut from the same cloth. I do hope you find some guy that finds you desirable but I am not that guy.

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  9. Michael, are you an idiot? I have been telling you forever that Judy was the woman for you. This was even before the "other" woman. Do you remember having lunch with me at the Paseo Grill and I slapped you around telling you that you picked the wrong girl. How stupid can you be brother to have only figured out what everyone of your friends have known for months?

    Steve

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  10. You're just what I've been looking for all my life. You're the best argument for cloning. There has to be more of you out there. If there is I hope we find each other.
    Judy, you're one great woman to have stolen Michael's heart.

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  11. I am happy and disappointed at the same time. Michael, you are everything I ever dreamed of but because of that I am happy that you found your soul mate. I agree with Mary, have you ever thought about cloning?

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  12. To Steve,
    Thank you so much for the sweet things that you said. I wondered that about him too!! :-) I'm just thankful that I listened to my heart and not my head for if I had not made that decision I would have just disappeared.

    To Mary,
    Michael is amazing and I have waited my entire life to find someone has wonderful as he is. I am so very lucky to have found my best friend and I promise you I will cherish him for an eternity.

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  13. I am disappointed as well but happy at the same time. I hope we can still be friends because I cherish you Michael, you are the best man I have ever met. One day I hope to find a man as good as you.

    Judy, don't worry, I love Michael and because of that I want him to be happy. You have made him light hearted and the always happy guy I remember back in college.

    Sara

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  14. Thanks Sara but the one thing I do not worry about is Michael. There are many women that feel the same way that you do and claim to love him but I know that he is only coming home to me so there is no problem.

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  15. Coming home? Do I hear wedding bells as well?

    Sara

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  16. I am so happy for my mother. Michael has brought so much happiness and joy into her life. I am honored to be a witness to such a relationship.

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  17. I am happy for you both! I hope you have many wonderful years together! :-) awf

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